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Post by waferswafers on Dec 6, 2016 13:39:38 GMT -5
Hi folks, Six months after losing our beautiful old grey girl to the dreaded c word, we have just taken on a five year old rescue girl. She was returned to the rescue centre prior to us taking on. Apparently the family who'd owned her returned her after 12 months or so. The rescue weren't totally sure what the reasons were, but it transpires she'd been living with a family with kids, as well as another smaller dog. Basically she was very used to a busy home with something going on all the time. Now she's with us, she's in a child-free home, with only a cat for company (she's cat friendly). It's the polar opposite of what she's used to. She seems very quiet, isn't eating a pile, and generally seems pretty fed up. She's been with us for a week. Between my partner and myself, she'll get four days of us around (one or the other of us) as our days off are different to each other. The other three days are covered by me racing back from work to let her out at lunchtimes. Longer term, I guess we'll have to get a professional dog letter-outer... Previously, with our old girl, I worked much nearer to home and was usually driving past at lunch time, so letting out was not an issue.
We're now seriously questioning whether we're the right people for her. She's a gorgeous girl, and a proper stunner. However, we are VERY aware that our home is so massively different to what she is accustomed to, and probably liked. She's been well looked after and clearly isn't an abused dog.
Any thoughts on this and the lunchtime letting out? She deserves a good home, and we just aren't convinced ours is fair on her.
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Post by gvgeam on Dec 7, 2016 14:04:31 GMT -5
Welcome and congratulations on your new girl!
Although I'm a lurcher owner, not greyhound, I believe that rescue dogs take at least 6 months to settle.
I think it's very early days for her yet and if she's quiet, she's perhaps finding her feet. She'll be watching you both (and the cat) and working out how your home works and where she fits in. You are different from her previous experience, certainly and you don't say how long she was back in rescue for. Maybe she'll prefer a quieter life!
Please take time (if you haven't already) to read Lisa's threads in this section on bringing your new hound home as the advice is excellent.
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Post by waferswafers on Dec 10, 2016 17:01:34 GMT -5
Many thanks for your reply. She was only back in the rescue for three or four days, so hasn't been out of a domestic home for long. She's slowly settling in - as you say she needs time to properly settle. We'll try our best!
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Post by lurcherlot on Dec 11, 2016 4:28:40 GMT -5
I hope your hound is beginning to settle more each day - it can take many months before she feels completely at ease, so patience in the key. Letting out at lunchtime is essential and whilst you can manage to get home, I think it's best that it's you doing the letting out rather than introducing someone new at this early stage. Good luck.
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Post by Flaperoo on Dec 13, 2016 12:51:04 GMT -5
My first greyhound many years ago struggled for many months when he came to live with us. At the time I too asked questions regarding were we the right home? He wasn't bonding with us etc. I'd come home from work and he wouldn't move - no welcome, nothing. I contacted the rescue on many occasions and they said give him time.
We did and I can't tell you how pleased I am we did not send him back. I came home one lunch time after about 8 months of having him and he was at the door!! I opened it and he wagged his tail; only a little wag but I cried with sheer joy. He became the most amazing pet dog and a fantastic ambassador for the breed. He took his time to trust us but once given we and he never looked back.
He died of cancer a few years ago but despite his parting my life has been enriched because he was in my life. His legacy has had an immense influence on me. It's too early; she's finding her feet; she has been in one home where she may have given her heart only to be no longer there; she may take a little time to adjust but the difficulties you have are minor. Be patient, love her for who she is and you will find yourself abundantly rewarded in time.
Good luck it would be lovely to hear how you get on.
Maryx
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